SALAM RAMADHAN 1434H

WISH A HAPPY  RAMADHAN  TO ALL MY MUSLIMS FRIENDS...

Alhamdulillah, even though today is our 6th day of ramadhan, i hope it is not to late to wish happy celebrating ramadhan. Again i'm so blessed and grateful to ALLAH swt for giving us another opportunity to enjoy another blessed of ramadhan especially celebrating it with my loves one. 

WHAT MAKES RAMADHAN IS VERY SPECIAL?

• The month of ramadhan will unites all muslims fasting, feasting and worship and  prayers.

• Performing sAHUR. the most challenging part of ramadhan.

• Satans are chained in this month, so they are not able to accomplish their evil thing ( so if anyone do bad things in this month they cannot blame satans therefore who to be blame??who's the satans??wuahahahaha)

•  PARAM - PASAR RAMADHAN.. i dont know who initiated the word and frankly speaking i still cant accept the word PARAM is used for pasar ramadhan because it sounds funny ;)) However, that's  the speciality of ramadhan because we have PARAM!! that is where many,many, many delicacies are serve..I'm sure everyone will looking forward to go to PARAM.. Eventhough i'm not the fan of PARAM but i can't admit that everytime i go to PARAM, i would be looking for kuih Tepung pelita which only appears/sells during Ramadhan..

• MUMS' COOKING..Yes, of course my mom's and mom- in- law's cooking are the best!!During ramadhan, both my moms will cook special foods and kuihs. As usual, i will request my dear mak to do kuih puteri mandi and for my dear mama (erkk, xboleh la nak request2 kan,malu..hehehe). However, the best dish she ever made for us is nasi kerabu (wajib tiap2 tahun, krukk kruk kruk,hokey, perut dah start berbunyi).Then, everytime breaking fast with them i'll see all kind of differents and funny names of kelantanese kuih like lompat tikam,nek bak, taik itik, buah tanjung, chek mek molek, akok and of course my favorite kuih is jala mas.(uwaaaa, sedapnyer tp susah nak jumpa kat sini yang sedap)

Buah tanjung

akok

tahi itik

Sometimes, we feel very excited with  ramadhan until we forget the goal of ramadhan, the month of blessings. In reality, by looking into Malaysia Muslim society,  sometimes we dont realize that there are also common errors we did during ramadhan.

COMMON ERRORS MADE DURING RAMADHAN:

• OVER SPENDING. sopping and sopping and sometimes will use our children name to buy things that actually is not neccessary(opsss,  like talking to myself.sorry IM, cant helped it.xpe pasni insaf k..gheee;p) 

• Spending more time in socializing. example: attending iftar with friends and relatives. No doubt it is not wrong. There is a good thing about it when we can gather and meet friends which we haven't met for a  long time. But sometimes we tend to forget and  spend time more on socializing. In fact some people during ramadhan haven't get a chance to break fast with family due to the break fasting invitation. (KEsiannn kan,walaupon makan free!!opss)

• "Socializing in masjid". Many people did not realize that they talk and too socialize in masjid. The hot topiscs that will be discussing are talking about baju raya, kuih raya, balik kampung, bla,bla,bla.Yes, sometime we can't helped it in doing so. So after this, TRANSFORM to be better!!. it is not too late to change. Well, After performing prayers, salam-salam then go back home..eh chup, singgah moreh dulu pon okay, jamah satu dua kuih saja k!

• Abstaining gossip thingy and vain talk.(referring to previous point). Well, This is also hard to avoid and sometimes again we dont realize it or some people realize it but still doing it. However, how to avoid it is one thing and i realized to avoid this kind of hunch is   to choose and select the circle of your friends.Choose the right community if u tend to socialize during ramadhan. insha ALLAH it works!!

 However the most valuable thing in this blessed ramadhan is to acquire the sweetness and  the reward and bonus that we could gained during this  month.

GAININING THE BENEFITS OF RAMADHAN.

Below is the brief list of the acts which should be done: 

• mission is to bring oneself closer to ALLAH swt. HOW? 
• besides fasting, take the opportunity to try to perfom tarawikh prayers as much time as u can either at mosque or at your own house ( only occur once a year).
• if possible, try to recite and reflecting on Qu'ran.
• night prayer during ramadhan.
• the last 10 nights of ramadhan is very vital!!

• acquire strong will and be patient

• refining and cultivate good manners - change to be better.

• and those who are affordable (berkemampuan) they can be more charitable

• and those who have children, try to teach them  worship to ALLAH swt  ( me myself and IM are trying to do so and we do hope and pray we could continue nurturing and fostering them to jalan yang diredhai ALLAH swt.. insha ALLAH, only ALLAH swt will.. ~~slow and steady win the race~~

 That is all the beauty of ramadhan month.It is indeed the month of ibadah. I myself and Mr Ironman (IM) have few targets to achieve during this Ramadhan 1434 H and we do hope with the bless of ALLAH SWT , we could accomplished our mission. insha ALLAH. Even though satans are chained in this month, but still it would be a challenging moment with all the sleepy head, tired, hungry, thirsty, laziness ( see!!start to give reasons...) BUT no,no,no we must be strong and it is all about mindset! remember, ONLY YOUR MINDSET!!!

Never stop praying to Allah to grant us the ability to change ourselves for the better during this blessed month, and always seek His Mercy and Forgiveness. Indeed ALLAH swt knows better.

Till then 

SALAM RAMADHAN 1434H 

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Salam n hola...this is my first post in this blog..well, first of all i would like to consider my blog as my virtual diary (vd)...i used to write my own diaries during my school days everytime i want to express my feelings..Frankly speaking,i enjoyed doing it and i still keep it in my secret treasure box which i couldn't recall the location of that thing~oh,my~ but those were the days, the old skool...Now, here i am, continue writing using the new generation of modern diary which is blogging..Actually,there is a chronicle that leads me to start doing this virtual diary and the person who initiate me or maybe forced us (me +whoda)~gheee;P~ to do this is our teacher or we would prefer to call him Mr.N...Even though, at first i feel like hadoiii but after a while i feel like this is fun & interesting..at least i can continue my legacy of writing my diary in different version~~kira upgrade la ni..kunun(tangan atas bahu)~~ So, thank you teacher for making this become reality..Nevertheless, besides sharing, educating and gossiping (of course!!), i do really hope this diary could be a medium for me to improve my writing..insyaALLAH..till then,see ya n good nite allz..